Hello Again...
You walk into a relationship with a naive attitude. At the time you just have an amazing feeling and caught up your feelings. So crazy about your partner you sweep things under the rug. So many emotions you don't attend to the real issues. It's young love and you struggle and you rely on your partner and look at it as a romantic novel with a happy ending. But the truth is there will be disappointments, neglect, and over working. So the love between gets twisted into a ball and no communication so assumptions are made. And neglecting each other turns to pulling other people into your relationship. The trust is lost and betrayal has happened. The relationship takes a wrong turn and they part ways. Carrying what they experience to the next relationship. You can only blame your youth for all that now. The next relationship is harder. You do not open up. Being more reserved and the relationship does not last long. The feeling you are holding back and not letting go plays a big part. Holding on to your heart tight, just because you don't want to hurt again. And you are learning to survive on your own. Depending or relying on a partner is not a way to go with relationship. So you do everything yourself and treat your partner as if you have no desire to need anything from your partner. The relationship is doomed. Not feeling wanted is a very unpleasant feeling. The partner start to try and break you. The verbal abuse starts and don't stop till the relationship is at the end of it's road. Any kind of an abuse in any relationship is just a bad sign. It ends and you go one. And of course there is pain and tears in both relationships. It is hard to move foward it seems at the time. But you do move past all that with time. Then a ways down the road you think you healed. Another relationship presents itself. So you are more cautious than ever right now. You can not rely on a partner. The trust is gone and you are suspicious and you do not need anything from them. But you still want to be in a relationship. Things happen for a reason. The past stays with you your entire life, if you do not forgive, you do not heal, or you resolve issues and close all doors to your past. The one that truly loves you might be the one you just shut out because of your insecurities and you have to learn to let little things go. Learn to trust and heal your heart before you want to love again. Opening your heart makes love true. And just appreciationing one another in the relationship has to be done. The mutual respect and the love has to be there through all stages of a relationship. It takes a lot of healing on your part to make a relationship work. Communication, trust, love and respect. Thank you all for reading and special thanks to a special friend who inspired me today. Lots of love and blessings to you all.
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