Listening Heart

Hi there..

      As a partner in a relationship, it has its responsibilities. Being in it together, working as a team, learning with each other, from each other, and knowing it is a partnership. The communication is one of the important aspects of a healthy relationship.
     Making sure you are on the same page, knowing what the other person is thinking, and staying focused on what both are wanting. That is where talking and communicating is very important. What to say and how to say it.  Listening very carefully. Having a great attitude. Actually hearing each other, feeling their emotions and see their point of view. The ability to be in their shoes for a moment. Having control and having the patience to take what is said into consideration. Responding to criticism with empathy, Understanding  the other person's feelings and not reacting in a negative way. Knowing the other person is just trying to help the relationship and wanting the same outcome on in the direction of the relationship. Own up to what has occurred or what is yours. Having mutual respect for one another. Be aware of your body language, show you are listening and pay attention.
    Look for compromise. Taking time to see the issue.  Reaching an understanding. Looking at what is lacking or see the strong points to help each other grow together. Being a each others backbone is important. What one lacks the other one makes up for. If one has a bad day, the other person makes sure they have a good night. To have the ability to motivate each other to stay on top. To have respect for each other, to have appreciation for one another, and to remain consistent in the entire relationship. It is not easy because there will always be disagreements or having your own opinions, but knowing that there is always the communication and respect for each other is there, you are able to have a relationship go as smooth as possible. Talking is just as important as listening to your partner. Understanding their feelings and helping them to see your side of things.
I have been told plenty of times, I am a great listener. And always have good advice for whoever I encounter. I may not have all the answers, but I am a fair person. I see all points of view before I give advice. And sometimes the person just wants me to listen and I just give them that. I have learned from my family, close friends, my children and past relationships on my communication skills. I know what I am capable of and what I can offer. I hope I helped. My intentions are simple. I feel love and everything I do is all out of love. Thank you for reading and Lots of Love and Blessings...